Spiritual Death and Rebirthing

by | Jun 1, 2019 | Uncategorized

A time comes in a seeker’s journey when life holds them upside down and shakes their everything – the world they knew, the family that fueled their purpose, the relationships they found love with, the work that gave them meaning, and the identification that comes from gender, nationality, body, thoughts and feelings. Any attempt to hold onto any thread that might give a momentary relief is immediately destroyed and they are left with burning ashes of their raw and primal fear. 

 

There is nothing to lean on except fear, loneliness, uncertainty and longing. 

 

Everything is dying and dissolving at the hands of some mysterious force that seems merciless and benevolent both. Even when one is in pain, regretful of ever dreaming of those lofty goals of awakening and begging to live a smaller life, a smaller dream, which is practical and within grasp, this force refuses to give up. Something new wants to birth that is liberated from all identities.  

 

With all the safety nets gone, there is nowhere else to go but within. 

This where we meet with that Divine Grace that has the power to birth something

beautiful and lasting from our nothingness. 

 

The more we surrender to this space, the more we are filled with the sweet pleasure that comes from this mystical pain. It takes great courage to hang in this liminal space and rest in silence and non-doing. We are trained to take charge of our life and thoughts, to mold them into something good. These teachings of our world will play with our mind and challenge the real experiences and wisdom of our bodies. We might also find ways to numb this confusion and pain in some kind of excess. In comparison with others, our lives may feel wrong and lacking. All of that is human and understandable. 

 

But this process leading to our eternal truth asks nothing less than our total and complete devotion and surrender.

The wisdom here is to give into our unique process of dying without rushing rebirthing.

 

The more we do that, the more we are surrounded by the energy of extraordinary Grace and Love amidst the immensity of the pain we feel. The rebirthing that comes from such a space cannot be rushed and will not be glossy or shiny for the world to see. In fact, it will be a slow and steady process of tapping into the solid foundation that lies in some deep unrealized aspects of our being. We will fall down and take 10 steps back with every step forward. In all these missteps, a time does come when we start getting the feel of the beauty, knowing and guiding light within. 

 

  We start realizing that in spite of how painful it is we don’t want it any other way and somehow, we will make it.

We stop looking outside for answers. We start being who we are.

Anyone who has been through such an intense awakening or is going through one has my utmost respect. Each journey is unique so there is no universal wisdom here. A few things that served me were that I felt my scary painful feelings as much as I could. The more I was ready to feel them the less scary they became. I also stopped explaining my life to anyone who was not me. It was my story, it was my process and it was my longing that life was answering in its own unique way. I listed the fears which made it difficult for me to trust and I felt those fears. 

 

I also started radically accepting my life, the whole story with all its ironies and beauties.

 

There were moments I felt intense gratitude that my heart has the courage to long to unite with that something unknown within me. Sometimes I felt the rush of excitement of what that moment will feel like when I am awakened enough to find that which I have been longing for all my life tucked right inside of me. The moments when nothing worked, I cried my heart out and prayed. I leaned heavily on the Divine Mother and begged her to take me in her arms. Her soothing energy never failed me and that kept the flame of hope alive. The moments when I was so consumed with grief that I couldn’t even cry or pray was when Divine Grace literally descended down in some way to show me that I am not alone and refused to give up on me. 

In those moments, I knew that which I was seeking was seeking me as well. And that somehow, we will find each other.